Beard Oil, Balm, Wash & Conditioner: Which Do You Actually Need?

Four products, four different jobs. Here's how to decide what's worth buying.

If you walked into my shop and asked which beard care product you should buy first, I'd tell you to start with a good beard wash.

We started making beard oil in 2009, so I suppose that's a strange way to begin a sales pitch. Fortunately, I'm not particularly interested in giving you one.

A beard spends its day collecting sweat, skin oils, dead cells, dust, food particles and whatever else happens to be floating around. If you work in a cabinet shop, as I do, you can add a decent amount of sawdust to that list. Getting all that out is useful. Washing the hair so aggressively that it feels like a handful of dry straw afterward rather defeats the purpose.

Once you've got a decent cleanser, the rest comes down to what you're trying to accomplish. Oil conditions the hair and skin. Conditioner makes combing easier. Balm adds body and control. They complement one another, but each can be used on its own.

We make all four. You might need two. You might find all four useful. You might already have everything you need in your bathroom.

Let's figure that out before you spend any money.

Which Product Would I Buy First?

After years of developing and manufacturing beard care products, this is how I'd rank them for someone starting from scratch.

That ranking reflects my priorities for general maintenance. It isn't a universal prescription or the order you'd apply them.

A short beard that behaves itself may never need balm. Someone growing a long beard might find conditioner more useful than oil. If your beard sticks out in twelve different directions, there's a good chance you'll disagree with my placing balm fourth.

I've spent enough time working with different formulations to know that what works wonderfully on one beard can be almost pointless on another.

Why Beard Wash Matters

Washing sets the starting conditions for everything that follows. A cleanser that leaves the hair clean and comfortable makes the rest of your grooming easier. One that leaves it rough and tangled can turn even a simple combing into a fight.

The Problem With Ordinary Shampoo

Conventional shampoo is developed primarily for scalp hair. Many formulas are quite good at removing oil, which is precisely where the trouble can begin when you use them on a beard.

Facial hair tends to be coarser and can have a different shape and growth pattern from the hair on your head. When washing removes too much of its natural lubrication, the individual hairs don't slide against each other as easily. They catch, twist together and form knots.

Then you reach for a comb.

If you've ever tried to work a knot out of a long beard, you know how quickly that becomes an exercise in patience. Pull hard enough, often enough, and the damage starts accumulating. The outer cuticle wears, ends split and hairs break.

The longer the beard, the more opportunity there is for damage. The hair at the ends has already endured months or years of washing, brushing, weather and friction.

A 2025 review in Advances in Colloid and Interface Science, Understanding and Controlling the Friction of Human Hair, examines how the hair surface changes with wear and why increased friction makes grooming more difficult.

The damage is worth preventing because once a hair has split, there's no permanent way to glue it back into its original structure. Conditioners can temporarily smooth damaged areas, but eventually those ends need trimming.

And if you're trying to grow a substantial beard, constantly breaking off the ends isn't helping.

Is That Beard Wash Actually Different?

The men's grooming industry has a remarkable talent for taking an ordinary product, putting it in a black bottle, giving it a rugged name and charging more for it.

Beard wash hasn't escaped that treatment.

Some products are genuinely developed with facial hair in mind. Others are conventional shampoo-type formulations with a different fragrance and a picture of a bearded man on the label.

You can usually learn more from washing with the stuff than from reading the front of the bottle.

If your beard feels squeaky, rough and tangled after rinsing, you've probably removed more than you wanted. If the skin underneath feels tight, that's worth paying attention to as well.

The ingredient declaration can help you evaluate a cleanser, but it doesn't tell you the proportions of the complete formula. Two products with similar ingredient lists can behave quite differently.

The 2015 dermatology review Shampoo and Conditioners: What a Dermatologist Should Know? covers the differences between cleansing agents, the effects of removing sebum and the role conditioning ingredients play in keeping hair easier to manage.

A good cleanser removes what needs removing without leaving the hair unnecessarily rough. That sounds fairly obvious. Apparently it still needs saying.

Why We Make Ours Differently

Our Beard Wash is an olive-oil-based liquid soap formulated with approximately 15% superfatting by weight.

Superfatting means using more oil in the formulation than is required for complete saponification. It affects the composition and washing character of the finished soap, and it's one of the choices we've made in developing our wash.

We wanted something that cleans effectively while leaving the beard comfortable enough that you're not immediately reaching for half a bottle of oil.

Soap-based cleansers are alkaline, which is worth understanding. The superfatting doesn't magically change that chemistry, and plenty of well-formulated synthetic cleansers are mild. What matters is how the finished product performs on your hair and skin.

We've already covered the chemistry in Beard Wash vs. Shampoo: Do You Need Separate Beard Wash?, including how cleansing agents differ and why formulation matters.

For this discussion, washing determines the condition of your beard before anything else touches it.

What Beard Oil Does

Beard oil was where this whole business started, one bottle at a time, at my kitchen table.

It's still the product most people associate with Beardsman, and probably the one surrounded by the most nonsense.

Oil won't make your beard grow faster. It won't fill in a patchy beard, and it can't repair a split hair. If any of those claims were true, I'd have retired years ago.

What it does is condition.

Our formula combines jojoba, argan, hempseed, grapeseed, sweet almond, evening primrose and MCT oils with vitamin E. Each contributes to the overall feel and behavior of the blend. Getting the balance right matters more than putting one expensive-sounding ingredient in enormous letters on a label.

The oil helps lubricate the hair, improving its softness and making it easier to handle. It also provides emollient care to the skin underneath, something that becomes increasingly difficult to reach as a beard gets longer.

How Much Should You Use?

Start with a small amount. Work it across your hands and fingers, then distribute it through a towel-dried beard, reaching the skin underneath where needed.

The amount depends on the length and fullness of your beard.

For stubble and beards up to an inch, lightly coating your fingertips may be plenty. Between one and three inches, start with a pool about the size of your pinky fingernail. From three to five inches, use your index fingernail as a guide. Beyond five inches, a thumbnail-sized pool is a reasonable starting point.

We've included the actual pool depths in the illustration below because a little visual guidance is considerably more useful than telling someone to apply three mysterious drops.

You'll figure out the quantity fairly quickly. If your beard feels comfortable and your hands aren't greasy every time you touch it, you're probably close.

If you're leaving oil marks on everything you encounter, back it down a little.

We have a separate article called You Don't Need Beard Oil that gets into what the product can actually accomplish, including why some people don't need it at all.

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When Conditioner Earns Its Place

If you've ever tried to comb through a long beard that hasn't been conditioned properly, you've probably considered cutting the whole damned thing off at least once.

Hair isn't perfectly smooth. Its outer surface consists of overlapping cuticles that can become rougher as the hair weathers. Those irregularities increase friction, which makes tangling more likely and detangling more difficult.

Conditioner helps by depositing conditioning materials on the hair surface. They improve lubrication, reduce friction and allow the individual hairs to separate more easily.

That means less pulling with a comb and less mechanical stress on the hair.

The 2015 dermatology review describes how conditioners improve hair feel and combability, while the 2025 hair-friction review explains the surface interactions involved. Conditioning won't permanently rebuild damaged hair, but it can make grooming easier and help reduce additional mechanical wear.

Our Beard Conditioner is a water-based emulsion containing conditioning ingredients, plant oils and extracts. It includes a preservation system because any responsible manufacturer making this kind of water-based product needs to account for microbial contamination.

The conditioner is worked through the beard after washing and then rinsed away. Conditioning ingredients can remain on the hair after rinsing, which is how the product continues to improve the feel and combability of the hair.

I particularly appreciate conditioner on longer beards. When you've got enough hair to form knots, reducing friction before you start combing is a lot more pleasant than trying to drag a comb through them afterward.

What Balm Brings to the Table

Balm occupies an interesting place because it's already doing some of the work people buy beard oil to accomplish.

It contains conditioning oils and butters, but they're combined with waxes that give the product considerably more body.

That increased viscosity and structure allow balm to help control the shape of a beard. Oil can soften the hair, but it doesn't do much to persuade a particularly stubborn whisker to stay where you put it.

Balm can.

Someone with a short beard may have little use for that extra control. Someone with several inches of beard and an impressive collection of flyaways might consider it the best thing in the bathroom.

There's also overlap between oil and balm. Both provide leave-in conditioning, though they feel different and perform somewhat different jobs.

You can use balm alone, oil alone or a little of each. If you're using both, distribute the oil first and follow with enough balm to get the shape you're after.

You shouldn't need to plaster the beard into position. We're styling hair, not applying stucco.

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How the Products Share the Work

This is where the four products start making sense as a system.

Washing removes the day's accumulation of debris and excess oil. Conditioner makes the clean hair softer and easier to separate. Oil provides leave-in conditioning, while balm adds more conditioning with enough structure to help maintain shape.

You're spreading the work among products with different strengths.

Because conditioner and balm both contribute some of what people expect from oil, you may find you need substantially less straight beard oil when you use them together.

Here's an example.

Suppose you've been using 9 grams of beard oil over a particular period. That's what it takes to get the softness and control you're looking for.

Now you introduce conditioner and balm. Instead of relying on oil for everything, imagine that you're using 3 grams of conditioner, 3 grams of oil and 3 grams of balm over that same period.

You've still consumed 9 grams of product, but your beard oil consumption has dropped by two-thirds.

At that rate, an equal-sized quantity of beard oil would last three times as long. Each of the other products would have its own consumption rate, too.

The actual proportions will vary. Conditioner gets rinsed away, balm is more viscous, and the amount that works for my beard may be completely wrong for yours. The numbers illustrate the principle rather than a measured outcome from a product trial.

What matters is that you're no longer asking one formulation to handle cleaning, softening, lubrication and styling.

In practice, the combined result can also be better. A conditioned beard is often easier to comb before you've added any oil. Balm can provide shape without requiring you to saturate the hair with more liquid oil.

You've spent more money buying several products, but the individual containers can last longer because you're using less of each.

Whether that works out to an economic advantage depends on the products, their prices and how much you actually use. I'm not going to claim that buying four things is somehow cheaper than buying one.

I am going to argue that having the right tool for each job is worth something.

I've spent most of my working life making things. Trying to force one tool to do every job usually involves a lot of unnecessary work and a disappointing result.

Beard care isn't terribly different.

Taking Care of the Skin Underneath

A beard can look perfectly healthy while the skin underneath is having a miserable time.

Facial hair traps sweat, dead skin cells, excess sebum and environmental material. Depending on your work and surroundings, that might include wood dust, pollen or whatever else has been floating around all day.

Regular washing removes that accumulation. It also gives you a chance to notice irritation, flaking or other changes that are easy to overlook when they're buried beneath several inches of hair.

The skin itself maintains a protective outer barrier called the stratum corneum. That barrier helps retain moisture and protects against the outside environment.

The skin's naturally acidic surface environment, commonly called the acid mantle, is part of that system. A 2025 review in the Journal of Investigative Dermatology, The Skin Acid Mantle: An Update on Skin pH, explains its role in maintaining barrier function and regulating the skin's normal microbial environment.

The connection to beard care is fairly ordinary. Keep the skin clean, don't repeatedly strip it with aggressive washing, and pay attention to what you're putting on it.

Skin also supports a normal population of microorganisms. A healthy beard isn't a sterile one, nor should it be.

While regular cleaning is worthwhile, persistent dandruff and itching aren't always hygiene problems. Seborrheic dermatitis, for example, involves more than accumulated dirt and may require appropriate treatment.

We've written separately about beard dandruff and winter itching, including why some problems aren't solved by adding more oil.

Choosing Your Combination

You can assemble a perfectly good beard care routine with one product, or use all four. Here's where I'd start based on what you're trying to accomplish.

Those combinations assume you're starting from scratch. If you've already found a cleanser you like, keep it. There's no reason to replace a perfectly good product just to have matching bottles.

And there's no requirement to use every product every day.

Someone who works outside in the heat and spends the afternoon covered in dust will have different washing needs from someone sitting at a desk. Your beard's length, the weather, your skin and how much product you applied yesterday all influence what makes sense today.

With the complete system, the application order is wash, conditioner, oil and balm. Wash and rinse, condition and rinse, apply a small amount of oil, then use balm if you need additional shape.

Building Your Own Bundle

This flexibility is exactly why we've spent so much time working on our build-your-own-bundle system.

Most grooming kits are predetermined. Someone else picks the products, decides how many you need, and packages them together. If you only wanted two of the four, well, that's your problem.

We've never particularly liked that arrangement.

We want customers to be able to select the products they actually use and build a bundle around their own needs. Wash and oil, conditioner and balm, the complete system, or whatever combination suits them.

We're also developing quantity-based discounts that reward larger bundles, along with free-shipping benefits for qualifying bundles below our standard $70 shipping threshold.

The idea is to make the price reflect the amount you're purchasing without forcing you into a collection of products you won't use.

If you've decided that all four have a place in your routine, buying them together should offer better value than picking them up one at a time.

If you only need two, buy two.

What I'd Send You Home With

If you're starting from scratch, get the washing right first. From there, add whatever makes your beard more comfortable and easier to live with.

Oil would be my next purchase. Conditioner earns its place when length and tangling become an issue. Balm handles the shape and control that the others don't.

There's no prize for owning the entire collection, although a longer, more demanding beard may benefit from every product in it.

We've been making this stuff since 2009. I'd much rather have someone understand why they're buying something than sell them another bottle because the label promised something ridiculous.

Research and Further Reading

These publications provide the scientific background for the discussion of cleansing, hair friction, conditioning and skin barrier function.

1. D'Souza, P., and Rathi, S. K. (2015). Shampoo and Conditioners: What a Dermatologist Should Know? Indian Journal of Dermatology, 60(3), 248–254. Covers shampoo formulation, surfactants and conditioning mechanisms.
2. Weiand, E., Rodriguez-Ropero, F., Roiter, Y., Angioletti-Uberti, S., Dini, D., and Ewen, J. P. (2025). Understanding and Controlling the Friction of Human Hair. Advances in Colloid and Interface Science, 345, 103580. Reviews hair friction, mechanical wear and how conditioning formulations affect hair surfaces.
3. Brooks, S. G., Mahmoud, R. H., Lin, R. R., Fluhr, J. W., and Yosipovitch, G. (2025). The Skin Acid Mantle: An Update on Skin pH. Journal of Investigative Dermatology, 145(3), 509–521. Discusses skin surface acidity, barrier function and the microbiome.
4. Ananthapadmanabhan, K. P., Moore, D. J., Subramanyan, K., Misra, M., and Meyer, F. (2004). Cleansing Without Compromise: The Impact of Cleansers on the Skin Barrier and the Technology of Mild Cleansing. Dermatologic Therapy, 17(Suppl. 1), 16–25. Examines cleanser mildness and barrier disruption.
5. Blaak, J., and Staib, P. (2018). The Relation of pH and Skin Cleansing. Current Problems in Dermatology, 54, 132–142. Discusses the relationship between cleansing, skin surface pH and barrier health.

For information on the ingredients used in Beardsman products, visit our Ingredient Glossary.